What Makes Valentine’s Day Romantic?A book giveaway by Michelle Major
Michelle will be giving away a copy of her book, Still The One to one winner. Comment to enter.
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Ahhh…..Valentine’s Day–a time for love, affection and perhaps a bit of bone-crushing pressure to live up to expectations?
There are two distinct camps around February 14th–those who relish the grand gestures and gifts involved – whether candy, jewelry, flowers or a romantic date night. Then there are people who maintain that it’s a commercialized holiday and balk at participating. I’m somewhere in the middle. I have to admit that after a couple of kids and decade of marriage the lingerie thing doesn’t hold a lot of appeal, flowers feel like one more thing I’m responsible to keep alive and I’m pretty self-sufficient when it comes to keeping a decent supply of chocolate in the house.
But I still like a little wooing (what women doesn’t?) which made me think about what romance means to me. Okay, I write romance so spend a lot of time trying to create a perfect love on the page. In my book, Still The One, there’s a scene where the heroine (Lainey) comes home from a long, exhausting day to find that the hero (Ethan) has gone out of his way to leave her favorite meal in the fridge, even though it’s not something he personally likes. Still The One is a reunion romance so it’s been over 10 years since Lainey and Ethan have been together and the fact that he remembered what she liked and brought it to her–while not a grand gesture–was one that was deeply meaningful to Lainey.
I realized I wrote that scene because that’s the kind of romance that means the most to me as well. Something that is personal and thoughtful. In that way, my hubby can knock it out of the park because he knows me so well. Even if it’s just a piece of my pie from the local bakery it’s special because he takes the time to stop and pick what he knows is my favorite. This Valentine’s Day I’m making him a batch of breakfast burritos for the freezer – he leaves for work at the crack of dawn so will be able to quickly grab and heat something yummy before he leaves. Not that either of us would say no to being jetted off to a tropical island but since that isn’t our current reality, we make the most of the love at hand.
What about you? Do you like the traditional romantic gestures or put your own unique spin on Valentine’s Day? Comment for a chance to win my February Harlequin Special Edition release, Still The One.
About the Book:
Only a distress call could summon Lainey Morgan back to the small hometown she had run from, leaving her family—and the man she adored—standing at the altar. Yet even fame as a globe-trotting photojournalist couldn’t erase the pain of losing the baby Ethan Daniels had been marrying her for. Still, he always had been the best veterinarian around—and the stray dog that had attached himself to her needed attention. Almost as badly as she did…
As for Ethan, Lainey was driving him crazy all over again, and ten years away had only made him want her more. She had done the unforgivable, true, but he was beginning to discover that she had suffered more losses than even he knew about. Both of them had done some growing in the past ten years. Maybe this time, forever could be within their grasp….
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February 12th, 2013 at 7:53 am
For me Valentine’s Day is more for what I do for my nieces and nephews.. the little ones that is. The one’s who don’t know who they are getting those “special” Be My Valentines from. They are sent with a ? as the signature.. THe older ones guess who it is now, so they think I am being silly sending them to them. But I get a big kick out of it… The last package to go out, has some goodies in it… It makes me feel good to do this for them.. I also have one great-niece who has a birthday the day after Valentine’s Day, so that is speical too..
Thanks for the great giveaway.
February 12th, 2013 at 12:28 pm
I do not need the big splash for Valentine’s… I just want to be shown that they care… I have more fun helping my little nephew make cards for family members.
February 12th, 2013 at 1:02 pm
Love Valentines posts and this author–I’ve already got a copy of this winderful romance so please don’t enter me in the giveaway.
Love this blog as well and will need to stop by more now! Xo
February 12th, 2013 at 1:54 pm
The small, thoughtful gestures are definitely the ones that work for me too! My sons usually make their own card for me and those are always special! Great post, Michelle!
February 12th, 2013 at 2:12 pm
don’t really celebrate it
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February 12th, 2013 at 2:43 pm
Aww, I love that gesture. It’s always nice to feel like someone cares about you enough to remember the small things
February 12th, 2013 at 3:32 pm
It is nice to get the gifts but to me it is just another day. To me, Valentine’s Day is is too commercial. It makes men feel guilty if they do not perform a special way.
I do however like chocolate and do not need a special day just to eat it.
February 12th, 2013 at 4:23 pm
I like the small things myself like when my husband makes me a cup of tea on a cold day.
February 12th, 2013 at 5:13 pm
Many years ago it was all about the romance, dinners and gifts. Now it’s all about the cookies and fun decorations for the grandkids.
They love the fact that we celebrate with cake and cookies and it’s a Party. 
Carol L.
February 12th, 2013 at 9:29 pm
Its the gestures that say, “I remember what speaks to you”, that touch me the most. Having someone take the time to give or do something because they know what you want, not what they would like to give. Love this blog, Michelle, thank you for sharing.
March 18th, 2013 at 12:07 pm
Congrats # 8 Maureen!
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